the bare essentials: October 2007

i watched criminal minds the other day (criminal minds is sooooo COOL! i love tat show!) and it was an episode about a woman serial killer who follows jack the ripper's killing style...and she finds wandering men (men who go bar hopping and look for women in groups of 2-3) and u know y she started killing these men?

because one day she was at a bar wit a friend of hers and of course, women who go to bars alwiz wear clothes that would attract men or juz to get some attention..so she got 2 men's attention and they brought her to the second floor of the bar and there,they raped her. she was screaming and ppl downstairs heard her but no one did anytin.

after that, the police came bcoz someon complained about a 'disturbance' at the bar..2 policemen (partners) went to check it out and the 1st policeman didn't believe the woman bcoz..

1) he said the outfit she wore showed that she was ASKING for it

2) he knew one of the boys (who raped her) and said tat he was a good boy who didn't need tis kind of nonsense in his profile.

the second officer believed the girl.

so why am i saying this?

because..after that show..i told my mom (she was watching it wit me) tat i SERIOUSLY DISAGREE that women DESERVE to be RAPED.

i believe tat even if a woman walks around naked in public, she DOES NOT DESERVE to be raped.

and my mom argued tat some women wear obscene and revealing clothes that shows tat they were asking for it..

but NO! i said...some women juz wear revealing clothes bcoz they tink and feel tat they look awesome in it! and even if some DO wear revealing clothes to attract attention..tat still doesn mean tat they DESERVE to be raped!

i rili feel strongly about tis and seriously disagree tat women deserve to be raped..
like audrey said..watever they 'ask' for when they wear attract attention is wit consent..and RAPE is with NO consent!

do u agree wit me?give ur opinions...

well..it all began with a mundane day at college where we went for class till 3pm..then the fun began..we were supposed to celebrate swee wei and karen's bday on 11th october...so..swee wei, audrey, karen and i:

3:00pm - 4:15pm = waited for taylor's bus to come to get a FREE ride to subang parade

4:15 - 5:00pm = lepak in subang parade dessert corner till swee wei's dad came to pick us up..

5:00pm - 7:30pm =lepak and got ready to go subang parade for dinner

8:00pm - 9:00pm = met up wit calyn, denise, paul, and caroline chia in subang parade's dave's deli

after that....

sadly, karen could not follow us clubbing so only audrey, swee wei, jacqkie, caroline chia and i went clubbing..
we reached asian heritage row and tried to find free parkin but as it was ladies night, there was obviously NO free parking..so instead we decided to park on jalan yap ah shak for RM10, and since it was 5 of us gals, we divided it evenly so each of us oni paid RM2 for parking..
we decided to check out atrium as the last time i went, they said that if u go there b4 10pm and buy a bottle, you get one free..event though by the time we reached there it was edi passed 10, we decided to check it out anyway as the atmosphere was cool there (my opinion anyway)

YOU KNOW WHAT?
i went to the front desk to ask if cover charge was free for guys (bcoz caroline lim and her guy frenz wanted to join us) and what the bouncer said was "you gals are lucky bcoz you came just in time - if 5 gals come b4 11pm, you get a free bottle".. and guess WHAT? we got NGAM NGAM 5 GALS!!

omg we were so lucky!so we went in with a FREE bottle of Bacardi Lemon (although it was only 70ml, it was still FREE!) so we drank and drank..hehe..
jacqkie told me to get the bday gal (sweei) drunk..so i did..hheehe..made her take a sip of hard liquor, but since she could not take it, i put abit of coke in it and told her to down it and tat i'll down one with her..(but she only downed HALF!while i drank the whole thing!damn u sweei!) anyway..she got rili tipsy and high..wwahahaha..got abit crazy after tat...she was so cute when dancing!! btw there was no one on the dance floor so oni the 5 of us gals were dancing in the middle of the dance floor layaning ourselves..whahahaa...it was fun though..and surprisingly, jacqkie wasn't afraid to 'layan diri' with us! during tat time my fren carol lim and her guy fren 'charles' met us there..wah we were like VIP there wei..i told the bouncer tat my frenz might be coming..and he said tat i din hv to wait for my frenz and tat they juz had to tel my name and the bouncer would bring them to my table..whahha..(btw the bouncer's name was HANIF..and when i saw he he looked so familiar..turned out he was an XFresh curiser who came to my college to be an MC once..hehe..)

anyway, since sweei and i nv went to maison, we decided to check tat place out for a while..and since carol lim went there alot, she decided to be our 'tour guide' for tat nite..she brought sweei, aud and i to maison and brouht us in..(wahaha ladies night free entry!) and it was cool! we checked out the whole area and after tat, we danced a little and apparently, two guys wanted to dance wit sweei (tapi x dilayan..kesian..i guess they din realize how high she was..) there were abit too many chinese guys there..i terserempak with victor (hi vic!) there too...anyway, after a while, we decided to leave as we din want to leave jacqkie and carol chia alone and with the drinks..wahaha juz jk guys! as we were walking out of maison, we saw Adam C the VJ for 8tv (the 'now high' sweei gave him a high 5!omg!) as well as Haris Iskandar(is tat his name?man..i rili dunno celebs!) which sweei saw and pointed right in his face..and i mean right-in-his-face-almost-poking-him-in-the-eye!

we went back to atrium and drank summo...and danced summo..omg! you shud see sweei dancing!she was making rounds around the dance floor and couldn't stay on one spot..she pulled carol chia's blouse ribbon open and almost pulled her skirt down too! she even hugged me so tightly from behind that i almost choked to death! then suddenly, when i tol her to sit down and rest abit, she looked at her blouse (a black baby lolita) and twirled around to make her blouse twirl like a skirt! omg it was so funny! and she did a few weird and crazy moves too! it was sooooo funny u shud've been there! we couldn't keep her still as she kept dancing around all of us..and i mean ALL of US!

syafiq, logesh and chacko joined us after that and we also met up with edmund and kamini(my juniors) and her bunch of frenz..chacko was fun and logesh too...but syafiq as usual din dance alot..hmph..

i tink i danced continuously for almost 2 hours man! i only stopped for a few mins when i was tired and continued dancing again and again with everyone! jacqkie was damn popular tat nite wei!so many guys wanted to tok and dance with her..even the ambassador of the club!sadly,not alot of hot guys there..there was a cute white guy but he danced abit weird..

after a few nites of clubbing, i have concluded tat:

1) i absolutely LOVE clubbing!

2)i'm too broke to make it a lifestyle

3)i wish i had money,my own car, and no curfew!

4)guys nowadays can't dance to save their life! (not all guys though..but the ones that can are so rare and so hard to find!)

5)gals shud NOT take or accept drinks from random guys even though they've tried it beforehand! and i'm saying this specifically to someone! (unless u know them well enuf or trust them with ur life!)

6)i want to go maison next!anyone care to join me?

7)atrium is soooo cool!!!its atmosphere is sophisticated and classy, nice layout of the club, cool seating (couches) and tables, reasonable price for liquor (except beer..quite mahal) and has two floors! - downstairs: RnB, usptairs: half house..which i tink no other club has..so its like 2 in one! and contrary to what my frenz and i tot, its not a new club..i saw d club's name in juice mag (but it stated tat atrium was a bar, not a club..i guess tat's wat's changed..) and the bouncer (Hanif) and workers are quite friendly and service is good! (chewah..like promoter for tat club oni..)

anyway, i love that place! not alot of ppl goes there though...but tis is my opinion...mayb other days its packed..anyway frenz...please check tat place out!it RAWKS!

btw..just to let u guys know..

weds and thurs in atrium: any 5 gals who come b4 11pm gets a free bottle but guys are strictly NOT allowed to drink the free bottle

fridays in atirum: buy 1 bottle free 1 bottle b4 10pm..

there is NO cover charge there..

anyway...we chaoed at 3pm and went to mamak near jackqie's hse and after tat aud and i went to sleepover in sweei's hse..the end..

overall,it was a rili chun nite for me and for sweei, i hope she had lotsa fun since tis was kinda like her bday party..love u sweei!!hope u were HAPPY~

p/s: we only spent RM2 each (for parking) the whole night..(excluding mamak)

a few pics of that nite (jackqie's camera was too friggin big to go clubbing so we used her camera phone instead..)